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I have been thinking about this…

Are there really magic words that anyone can use? Can you actually use some words to make your ex to return your phone calls or text messages?

I have heard it a lot. Words are powerful! Yes If then, then there must be.

So I got cranking.

You have just separated. Your ex still hurts. You feel it was a mistake. You still love her.

It is as if the sleep can not come to your eyes. You have got to get her back as soon as possible.

Then you pick up your phone to call.

She is not there to pick up the call or it is either she does not want to speak to you at least for now. The phone is ringing. Soon it will enter into voice.

You are thinking, what I say. At least it has to be so strong to make her want to forget and call you back.

Okay let us try to look at some of the things we can say.

Here we go!

There are two factors that play important parts in our lives. Put that to maximum use here. There are namely Curiosity and what I call personal or Self Interest.

Remember curiosity killed the cat! Then there is the first law of preservation - self interest.

These two factors applied together always work like magic. Do not just use one, but apply the two for maximum effect.

Now instead of just calling and leaving a message like this “Hi Jane, please, please call me. This is the forth or fifth time that I am calling you. Why are you being stubborn?”

Do you think an ex will return a call like this? No, makes here more furious.

Let us look at another scenario. You leave a message for your ex which runs like this “Hi Jane, it is me. I have to talk to you. It is important. Do not fail” You are issuing a command. Maybe this was the very attitude that put her off in the first place.

Now let us look at how this could have been done.

You know that voice tone that she wants you to use when you were together. That is the tone to use now.

In that tone you leave a message like this “Hi Jane, I want you to know that I appreciate what you did for me the other time. Call me back as I want to say thank you

properly”

A message like this can make anyone curious. If she still feels anything for you, she may just decide to call you and hear what you have to say.

I have to emphasis at this stage that getting her to call you is not the all in all. You have got to know what to say and how to say it or you may ruin everything forever.

So try to get a few books on relationships, do a little research on the female behavioral pattern before actually using the technique I just mentioned.

There are a few powerful e-books on clickbank.com

Do a little search online. With this, I think you will be okay and get back the love life you always wanted with your lover.

====== Okereke U is s a relationship expert who like to write on the affairs of the heart. He has written a lot of useful articles on the magic of making up. He writes on how to rebuild that bridge and keep the relationship strong. If you like his article “How to get an Ex back” then click below and visit his Blog for more: http://themakingupmagic.blogspot.com =====